Why is honey NOT allowed to help me name the kitten…
(taps fingers…) I have no idea were to begin. Do I give you guys some information… Even if I did that things may or may not come out right… I guess, I will give you guys FACTS! YES! FACTS!
Let’s start with me..
1. Married twice before
2. Awful marriages!
3. from 1999 till 2006 I was a serial dater but, not a bed hopper… I was actually celibate from 2000 all way way till 2005( I know wrap your mind around that…)
4. During that time I learned about ME… What made ME tick… What was I made of and I focused on being a mommy and a full time student… When I met honey June of 05 I was REALLY to have a relationship just not with him…HA-HA
5. I did not want my past to bleed into my future and I knew I wasn’t mentally capable of having a relationships with out issues getting in the way. I needed to be happy with me FIRST!
OK those are some important facts about me..
Honey
1. Was married twice before
2. Was married to first wife for four years…
3. Was with second wife for all in all seven years
4. Second wife left him while he was at war… Left him with a negative bank account moved herself and her children to FL with her best friend ( a man) but, never cheated (rolls eyes)… When he got back all he came back to was a negative bank account( still ), an empty house and I think that was about it.
5. Got divorced in 04, and his second ex wife got re-married in 04 ( to the man she left to FL with, still no cheating guys!)…
6. Even though things went down the way they did AND even though 2nd ex was re-married they kept in contact and had relations( Fill in your own blank)
7. Husband of SW FORBIDS second wife from talking to honey…
8. SW does things behind husband’s back…
FAST FORWARD TO BEING PREGNANT WITH THE TWINS….( 06 )
We were trying to name the twins. Honey came up with a name but, told me he would have to ask SW( second wife ) for his permission to use it because she had a dream about that name. I promptly said HELL NO! In the end he won and got the FIRST name… Only because I liked it too!
MORE FACTS:
1. 06- Honey had a huge problem with his Exes ( fiance’s, wife’s, girlfriends) calling his cell phone all hours of the night. One week straight an his ex fiance called 1, 2, 3, 4 in the morning.. like flippin clock work. Did I mention? I was 4 months pregnant with TWINS!!!!!?? Yep I was pissed.
2. 06- I caught him sneaking around calling SW @ 11:00 when I thought he was finishing up stuff on the computer. from that point on… I said IF he had to talk to her PLEASE make it BEFORE NINE!!! I know I was stupid! He said OK and HE said he told her…
3. 07- SW calls him @ 2:00am BEYOND pissed, i threaten divorce
4. 07- SW calls him @ 10:45 I punch a hole in the wall…
5. 07- I go and seek out a divorce lawyer I am serious people it was either his friendship with SW or our marriage…
6. It really does have a happy ending! 
PRESENT DAY
Get a phone call from Honey asking if it would be tacky to name his cat Cesar a cat YOU GUESSED it he had with Saint SW ( Yes I do call her Saint because STILL she can do no wrong…)
He is not allowed to name the kitty cat! That is my cat, and I WILL not allow any part of HIS past to come into my FUTURE!! Does that make sense?? Or am I being dramatic!!???
And still Honey see’s NO wrong naming a cat he had with SSW… He said it has nothing to do with SSW it has everything to do with the cat! YES, a cat he had with SSW.
Why are men so clueless?? Sorry male readers some of y’alls gender is just damn clueless! Clueless and everything I still have a wonderul husband! He is the cat’s meow even if he does’t get it! ( ha Ha)
So, my question for you is… Have you ever had your past bleed into your future so bad that it effects your every day life? And if you did… How did you deal?
