But, I love me more…

10 Oct

kendra, holly and bridget

kendra, holly and bridget

It’s a sad sad sad day for us Girls Next Door Fans.  It was confirmed by Hugh Hefner Playboy Bunny Founder that He and 1 girlfriend Holly Madison are no longer “together” You can read all about here. ( I need a moment)
(it’s the LONG dramatic pause…)
(I think I have composed myself enough…)

I remember seeing images of Hugh Heffner and the MANY(beautiful) women he would be surrounded by I can remember thinking,
“How does that work?” 
Are they one big happy family does he rotate them out?”
And, ” Does earth REALLY make that many (perfectly) beautiful women??”  

It wasn’t until the E!  Show Girls Next Door, that the public was allowed into the the enigma that surrounded the ever-elusive Playboy Mansion.  It was then that(we) fans fell in love with Holly Madison (A “REAL” Barbie) Kendra Wilkinson ( Another “REAL” Barbie” )and Bridget Marquardt( Yet AGAIN another “REAL” Barbie).  If you haven’t watched the show then I can assure you it is  more then scadalously clad women, and parties that are nothing but, big drunken orgies. 
Ok admittly so, I thought the same thing…
It’s no secret that Heffner is always surrounded by beautiful women- he is. ( And honestly I think we can all agree when you get a buncha half naked drunk people- what happends..  Or maybe not.  E! never showed us “private moments”- maybe that is an extended verison of the DVD’s Ha Ha)
I think the thing that surprised me the most is the respect he had for the women, all of his women.  He is a true gentleman, which is a rare find these days.   
( need another moment…)



When I first found out about the break up, I  said, “who on EARTH would leave the lap of luxury that surrounds these women?”
“Why would you leave it?”
Simple- money cannot buy everything.  Holly wanted Hugh to marry her, Holly wanted a baby, it was never a secret,  Hugh cannot give that to her. 

She loved herself more, and when you unhappy in life and in love…  The easy thing is to stay…  The hard thing to do is walk away…  In the end the only person you have to look in the mirror is you.  Self esteem will win in the end every time…  Remember ladies love yourself MORE than a man… 
you just never know.  Take it from somebody that has walked that walk… 





3 Responses to “But, I love me more…”

  1. Becky October 10, 2008 at 1:53 pm #

    It totally depressed me to learn that they’d split. I don’t have any idea why, but it did.

  2. tophataffairs October 10, 2008 at 4:17 pm #

    I know! Me too!! who knows…

  3. Jenny October 16, 2008 at 1:11 am #

    Have you ever seen the show “Big Love”? I just watched the first season and it was an interesting insight into pologamy. One of my friends hated it so violently I had to find out why 🙂

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